Why we won't able to acheive what we want...

Submitted by Jayesh on

You want to have your dream score card in exam but you fail... You want to increase our efficiency but you fail...You may want to maintain balance in your life and be best but you fail....You promise your self every time that this time you will achieve it but again you fail...

You target and strive for it again for again but improvement is not up to expectation. You have all resource and you may try your best also but then also it may not turn to result to your expectation...

It happen with all of us. We always fix target start with full enthu and energy....in mid way you lose pace...after some time you lost focus and in the end when you land up with result which is not up to your expectation...

Personally i feel it happen to me because of lack of discipline and consistency...Do you know why it happen with you...Think!!!

Share what you have to say, why this happen with you???If this not the case with you, share how to strive it..

 

Submitted by Lisha on Tue, 05-Feb-2008 - 11:48

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For me, it happens because of the other many, many, many distractions around me. They make me lose my pace and when things don't seem to go at a pace I want it to, I gradually lose focus, and efficiency in my work. That's when I take a break and come back. This increases my focus most of the times.

One more mistake I do, is to forget my objectives by seeing only the goal. If I set objectives and complete them, I "think" end goal will be achieved.

Submitted by tejasvi.adiga on Tue, 05-Feb-2008 - 19:34

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well here is another reason for not being able to achieve.. i want to do all sort of thing and learn all sort of stuff.. but the only thing happens is i end up jack of all but master of none..

Submitted by chayan on Wed, 06-Feb-2008 - 00:05

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we are not committed enough to our work n ya there are always distractions which does not let us complete our work.

even if we complete our work it is not upto the mark.

and also we loose patience n the work when completed is not good.

i think we should be more dedicated wit our work n not take it lightly.

Submitted by rmourya1 on Sat, 09-Feb-2008 - 10:37

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For me it's herd mentality..That's bad but i guess most ppl lose the fire because they don't think what they are doing will make much of an impact although the truth is somewhat different..

The moment we promise ourself to finish what we started there would be no problem:) easier said than done though...

rahul

Submitted by rajat on Mon, 11-Feb-2008 - 20:43

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But, sometimes we fail to achieve what we set out for because our willingness to achieve overpowers our willingness to walk the road that takes us there. Sometimes, we fail to realise the fact that the persistence to keep walking in the direction of the goal is THE ONLY WAY ahead. The eyes that are searching for the target all the time loose the enthu too soon.

Sometimes we fail because all we want is the goal. We resure to accept the price it takes to be there.

Sometimes we want victory without loosing . Sometimes we want to fly for the first time enever to fall. Sometime we only WANT but we do not TRY.

Goals in life will be achieved if we keep trying and refuse to die out..  

Submitted by rajat on Fri, 15-Feb-2008 - 21:30

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Sometimes I find it difficult to achieve what I want due to the negative emotions that creep into my little mind from the world around. There emotions come due to a variety of reasons.. some controllable and others .. not so controllable. They tend to make you look like an insignificant fool in the universe where there is no scope for your dreams.

All it takes to get the universe right is to cleanup inside. Get the negative garbage out and go for the KILL! 

Submitted by amitsedai on Tue, 09-Feb-2010 - 14:20

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Ya.. lack of discipline and consistent efforts can makes us fail in achieving our objectives. But... After a while, I do not feel so. I believe that people need to go out of focus at times.. and when you come back - you get a different perspective. The catch is that by the time focus comes back it should not be that late. The catch would be that the goal itself is something that requires one to fall and rise again. I believe having to fail again and again makes life meaningful. Its this effort and unending failures in our efforts that has made this forum alive. For everyone.. discipline and consistency may not be the manna for excellence but yes, it is definitely a part of the overall plan. This rise and fall in everyone's life would make them come out of different ingredients for success. As for myself, I never had enough of failures. It should continue to come till I feel thats enough. Till then, let each falling brick pave my foundation.